"Life starts at the end of your comfort zone"
I have ever read that words on my friend’s instagram
piicture. Life starts at the end of your comfort zone… it means, if you’re
still stay on your comfort zone, you will never feel the real life or reality
or something like that. I mean if you are still stay on your comfort zone it was like you lay on
your bed, sleep, dreaming and do nothing all day.
You know, to quit from comfort zone is the hardest thing
that people have to do. Let us imagine, when we are still comfort with our bed, but
the situation force us to leave that very comfortable bed because we should go
to school. Yup, that was really hard. But that was the life meaning for. Leave
your comfort zone and start do something to build up your dream or change your
life into the better phase than before.
Recently, my mind was very messed up, this was the
most complicated life period I have ever through. I’m already have a comfort zone that hard
to leave. I’m already comfort with that eventhough sometimes I feel time guilty to still stay in that zone. I
know, that was not good if I force myself to stay and maybe it can be worse in
my future later…
I’m very confused with myself right now. I have told and shared
my problem to my sister and this was what
my sister said to me on telephone:
“You have to leave it,
soon. I don’t want you to stay with this situation for a long time. You know,
you have been stayed with this situation in almost a long time. This is a worse
situation for you. You are older than me, I think you have to be smart in
making your life decision. Remember, what are you choose right now, will make an affect on your future later. “
“You’re still young,
you still have a lot of time, don’t waste your time jus for something that just
hurt you or bother you. Leave this worse situation and I’m sure the better
situation will come to you later. As soon as you leave this worse situation”
I’m still quite. She was right. The better things will not
come if you are keep your life in a worse situation. But, as I said before, I’m
already comfortable with that. It’s hard for me to do what my sister said.
“Stay or leave this
situation, soon. you have to decide it , soon. Because time will always goes by. I
don’t want you to waste your time too long. i know it is gonna be hard for you, but believe me, you can pass it. eventhough its hard and it can hurt you enough, it can give you some experience and lesson about life that very valuable”
She finally ended up our conversation with that sentences. Maybe she
tired and bored with all of my stupid justifications.
She still 16 years old but she always has good advice for
me. Her mind is more mature than me. She could solve problems
wisely. That’s why I always need her advice if I get some problems. She is very
open minded. I love her so much. She such a good sister I ever have eventhough
when I was child, I really hated her. You know, it was sibling rivalry.
Back to the topic.
The main point is, she really want me to leave my ‘wrong
comfortable zone’.
Then, the next questions are:
How can I leave this?
From where can I start to leave?
